this is pretty much a uniform problem across all serious martial arts, thats why most martial arts are not especially serious at all, most people don't want to be that serious, once they realize that the only way to get better at fighting is to take your lumps, toughen up and apply yourself regardless of pain or ego, they quit. Fighting aint a pretty busines and most people are not ready for the type of committed training and application it takes to become a better fighter.
Jeanry i would suggest you use the name freefechter somewhere in your groups name, we are all in a sense freefechter of one sort or another. And we follow in the footsteps of our ancestors when we gather freely to share and learn fighting skills. Many of our ancestors could not get to a master or city and so would gather in the fields to share what little knowldegde they had and work together to improve.

