Postby s_taillebois » Sun Mar 18, 2007 11:43 pm
M. Cummins,
As M. Curtis has noted, the living locations were variable. Often these men did live in proximity to the towns, as it wasn't uncommon for the lower nobility to have offices such as Sheriff (in the medieval sense) and other administrative functions. Accordingly, in addition to battlefield obligations they did sometimes serve as armed keepers of the peace. (In those areas which didn't have charters for town militias).
As young adults (about 12) where many lived was as retinue for a greater lord, or allied family. Partially to learn court manners, but also to serve as doorwards (literally), and henches. As young men, they often literally slept in the door to the Lord's chambers.
The wives, these were usually arranged marriages, and they did have to have permission from a liege to do so. Often, except in the smaller manors, the women's and mens lodgings were separated-in the late medieval...earlier everybody was in much closer proximity.
Also have to consider, these men weren't averse to involvement in industry (controlling forges,watermills and etc) although they generally did not actually work therein. Weirdly enough, some did play a important role in the system which produced the initial metals for their weapons...hence all the sqaubbling about forest rights...more fuel than fox hunts.
In general, where they sat at a table, and such, was incredibly important to them...whether within their abode, or their lieges, the conventions of status and arms were often very carefully observed.
By all most involved, those who broke those conventions, could be executed by higher ups, and often the higher ups took care in their conduct to avoid the three causes for which a noble could revolt against a liege...personal attack, subverting a fief (including taking command of a nobles personal retinue without consent) and seduction (wives).
Given these men lived in an incredible violent time, and had trained for killing...within the holdings, conventions were usually followed.
Steven Taillebois