I agree completly. It can be very humbling to recieve an outside critique of yourself. It can also be a very enlighting experience as well. But for it to become one, you must have the type of an attitude that Jeanry has displayed here. I am very impressed with him because of this.
Thanks a lot y'all for saying that. I guess I can handle the critique because I was well aware beforehand that I don't know a lot of the basics of WMA, and I can sense that it's meant honestly. Also because I get probably too much respect as a fighter from people I spar with here locally which offsets any ego bruising I feel somewhat. But I don't want to be a big fish in a little pond, I really want to learn this stuff. Everybody says I belong in a different time era, and they may be right.
Plus that clip wasn't exaclty the greatest fighting I ever did, it was a very casual bit of free play. One day I'll post some clips which will amaze! (Or possibly just generate a lot more criticism...)
There is one trick I learned to cope with ego issues as a writer. When I write a story or an articfe or a rpg piece, I let my girlfriend read it first, she very uncritically loves everything I write. Then a few other people who I know are also mild critics and generally did my style of writing and opinions. Then basking in the glow of unwaranted self esteem, I send it to my editors! They may tear it apart but by then I feel ok, so I can learn from the mistakes. Finally, if it's an essay or an opinion piece, I may sometimes post it to a public forum to see what kind of points people are predisposed to disagree with me raise. After I quit tearing out my hair over the heresy which has stung my ears, I often learn a few things. In the long run I end up with a better written piece.